I’m Dani, an intimacy coach, adult performer, sex and gender scholar, digital strategist, and host of Ho’ Adjacent, a podcast spotlighting the lives, labor, and brilliance of sex workers and sex educators.

I first stepped into sex work in 2009 as a cam model, and over the years my path has included just about every aspect of sex work. My experiences in and out of the industry have shaped how I move–intentionally, sensually, and with a deep commitment to liberation.

In addition to my work as a performer and coach, I run a social media marketing business that supports creators, small businesses, nonprofits, and grassroots orgs. I blend strategy with storytelling, always centering the voices of those pushed to the margins.

I've been in the adult industry for over a decade, and I approach this work with nuance, care, and a lot of honesty. I believe sex work can be a site of power, transformation, and resistance. The truth is, trading sexual services for money can be liberating; it disrupts tired ideas about sex, gender, and power, and creates room for new ways of being, connecting, and living.

But I also know we are not just what we do to survive capitalism. We’re more complex than that and infinitely more interesting, more layered, and worthy of respect and rights–regardless of what we do to survive capitalism.

This space is for anyone ready to explore pleasure, power, and self-expression on their own terms. You don’t have to fit into anyone’s box here. Just come as you are.